I was never a kid who liked school when I was younger (In fact I dropped out of high school, got my GED, and went straight to college). It was not because I didn't enjoy going to class or learning new things, but rather was because I could only do those things if I had a healthy social life in school. For example, a science teacher I had in the 7th grade wanted to teach us how to use the microscope and I was very excited to learn. However, the second he said we needed to get in groups for this activity I froze in fear. Instead of worrying about learning and having fun, I was stuck in a situation where my brain couldn't do anything but constantly analyze the kids in my group. I'm a quiet person, will they think I am weird? My mom had a cigarette in the car, will they think I smell? Now there is no doubt I was a shy and anti-social child, and I am not suggesting the educational system should be designed around my particular personality. My issue is that this wasn't just an occasional circumstance I had to endure, but virtually a constant one. Yeah, I know, kids need to learn how to socialize and work in groups. Every teacher uses this argument. The problem is every teacher and every class is trying to do this. Whether it is getting in teams for kickball in gym, lab partners in science, and reading groups for English. The only class I ever enjoyed and did good in was math because we hardly ever needed to be in groups! Not to mention the kids who usually did enjoy the groups only did so because they got to discretely goof off. I was a kid who failed throughout high school (I literally had all F's in 9th grade), and now I am soon going to graduate college with a 3.6 GPA. College allows much more room for independence while also not allowing you to be a total recluse -- a perfect balance.
Do you think the American educational system is too social?